Yesterday at 1:29 EDT, I was lecturing on fundamentalism in my religion class, listing some of the phenomena fundamentalists generally condemn as symptoms of moral decay – among them, abortion and pornography.
Yesterday at 1:29 EDT, someone using the server of the Pro Life Action League in Chicago accessed an older post of mine, “Feminist Porn: Where Are the Men?”
I made the point to my students that people aren’t as simple as their ideologies might sometimes imply. Here’s a great case in point.
I’m not even sure that one should call this hypocrisy. I think I’d rather regard it more charitably as an instance of people perhaps being creative and flexible in their ideas and behavior – a case of refusing to conform to stereotypes.
Of course, it’s also possible that this reader was looking for ammo to prove how sexually depraved feminists can be. He or she might have a guilty relationship with sexuality that projects one’s shame onto the abjection of women that appears frequently in industrialized, mainstream porn.
But I’d prefer to imagine this reader as embracing his or her desires – not least, because it’s impossible to sustain a hard line against abortion if one regards sexual pleasure as a birthright for women and men alike, part of a full and fulfilling human life.
Patron cat of Kittywampus (1985-2001)
I decided to do a personal investigation into the “truth” about pornography. What I basically found is a near hysteria which seems to come from the ring wing religious fundamentalist conservatives about anything relating to sex. Period.
Porn causes evil? Legitimate studies have found that as the availability of porn in society goes up, the rate of sex related crimes comes down.
Who buys the most porn? Conservatives.
People tell personal stories “I know a guy…”, “I heard of a family…” and pass it off as scientific evidence. The plural of anecdote is not data.
What’s the real problem? We are all so hung up about sex, we can’t talk about it. Because we can’t talk about, we don’t deal with it and hide it. A sad state of affairs. The real problem isn’t pornography, it is our own sexuality.
http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-investigation.html
Yes, the basic problem is our sexuality. Porn is a sort of mirror of our sexuality, though increasingly it also serves as “sex ed” for young people. (Not a good place to start.)
You would not believe the number of people who show up at this blog looking for “transformer porn,” simply because I wrote a post about a couple of kids I know who went searching for … transformer porn. I think there’s an unfilled niche …
This lady, Cindy Gallop has an amusing take on porn being the only source of sex ed.
http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/sex-cindy-gallop-make-love-not-porn.html