Via the Daily Dish, here’s some rank foolishness from evolutionary psychology. Time magazine has a woefully uncritical recap:
A new journal article suggests that evolutionary forces also push women to be more sexual, although in unexpected ways. University of Texas psychologist David Buss wrote the article, which appears in the July issue of Personality and Individual Differences, with the help of three graduate students, Judith Easton (who is listed as lead author), Jaime Confer and Cari Goetz. Buss, Easton and their colleagues found that women in their 30s and early 40s are significantly more sexual than younger women. Women ages 27 through 45 report not only having more sexual fantasies (and more intense sexual fantasies) than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period. And they are more willing than younger women to have casual sex, even one-night stands. In other words, despite the girls-gone-wild image of promiscuous college women, it is women in their middle years who are America’s most sexually industrious.
So far, so good – or so I thought, until Time noted one of the most egregious failings of this “study”: the older women (or “cougars,” as Time repeatedly calls them) were recruited from Craigslist! Dudez!!! Has anyone explained to Buss Easton & Co. that folks on Craigslist – even the women – are mostly looking for one thing, and it ain’t quality used furniture? Did they even stop to make sure that the Craigslist participants weren’t offering paid erotic services? And did they notice that there’s no section in Craigslist for “women not seeking anything”? No rubric for “not interested in sex”?
I’m willing to believe that women do gain interest in sex from their late twenties through menopause, but the authors haven’t even proved this. Also, they’re comparing apples and oranges. The other one-quarter of participants were students at UT Austin, who presumably participated for extra credit and weren’t actively advertising for sex partners.
But let’s grant Buss Easton at al. their facts. Their interpretation (again via Time) is still complete bunk:
Why would women be more sexually active in their middle years than in their teens and 20s? Buss and his students say evolution has encouraged women to be more sexually active as their fertility begins to decline and as menopause approaches.
Here’s how their theory works:
Our female ancestors grew accustomed to watching many of their children — perhaps as many as half — die of various diseases, starvation, warfare and so on before being able to have kids of their own. This trauma left a psychological imprint to bear as many children as possible. Becoming pregnant is much easier for women and girls in their teens and early 20s — so much easier that they need not spend much time having sex.
However, after the mid-20s, the lizard-brain impulse to have more kids faces a stark reality: it’s harder and harder to get pregnant as a woman’s remaining eggs age. And so women in their middle years respond by seeking more and more sex.
First, why conclude that seeing children die would always spur women to have more babies? An alternative would be to invest more resources in a smaller number of children. Women also regularly saw other women die in childbirth. By the authors’ own logic, this trauma would have motivated women to avoid excessive pregnancies.
Also, jumping from individual psychological trauma to species-level hard-wiring of our lizard brains? They might as well leap over the Grand Canyon.
And then there’s the idea that just because we have some procreative hard-wiring, our sex drives can be reduced to our lizard brains, even today. Again: Dudez!! Lots of us lizard-brained women will not have sex with partner unless we’re confident we won’t get pregnant. A few years have passed since the advent of paleo-women. I do not think the same as a woman 200,000 years ago. (I wonder, though, if she’d reject the Pill out of hand. I kind of suspect she wouldn’t. After all, she would have known numerous women who died in childbirth.)
Interpreting the “data” is confounded by researchers’ age categories, which are incoherent and puzzling. For many women, there’s a huge developmental gap between 27 and 45. We become different people, changed by our work, our romantic relationships, and (often) motherhood. All of those changes also impact our sexuality.
There are also major issues with the way that age group is characterized. By whose calculus is a woman in her “middle years” already at age 27? Sure, paleo-women were lucky to live past menopause. So were my great-grandmothers. Today, the only people who consider 27 to be “middle years” are middle-aged men who think they’re entitled to a 20-year-old girlfriend. (I’m sure they’re prowling Craigslist, too).
But even in terms of biology, 27 is not past a woman’s supposed reproductive prime. Fertility undergoes a gradual decline. It’s still pretty high until one’s mid-thirties. It only plunges steeply past age 40.
(Source: Management of the Infertile Woman by Helen A. Carcio and The Fertility Sourcebook by M. Sara Rosenthal, via BabyCentre UK)
The arm of biology that’s relevant here isn’t evolutionary psychology, it’s endocrinology. Women’s hormonal levels do contribute to libido (though in ways that aren’t yet well understood; otherwise, testosterone would offer an easy fix to women troubled by low desire). Hormones begin to fluctuate in the run-up to menopause. For a few women, hormonal changes become noticeable in their late thirties. Others notice them in their forties. Some women note a drop in sexual desire during perimenopause, while others feel it surge, and still others see it fluctuate.
But even granting hormones their due, it would be silly to think they’re the only – or even main – factor in shaping women’s desires. A recent study (via Charlie Glickman’s sexuality blog) found that even at menopause, social and psychological factors matter at least as much as hormones when it comes to sexual desire and activity. Science Daily summarizes the findings of Dr. Sharron Hinchliff et al. in the Journal of Health Psychology (15:5):
Almost all [study participants] had experienced some form of change but the findings indicated that these were down to a number of external factors such as providing care for a relative, partner´s low sexual desire and the quality of the relationship, alongside biological factors such as perceived changes in levels of hormones. The findings therefore concluded that women go through many lifestyle changes during mid-life which are also contributing factors.
This study further found great variability among women, with a minority actually reporting a resurgence of desire post-menopause. It’s easy to imagine social and psychological reasons for an uptick in libido: Kids leave home and empty nesters can romp with abandon. Menopause frees women from fears of unwanted pregnancy. Birth control is no longer a hassle. Experience and self-knowledge beget better sex. A great follow-up research project would be to identify those women who get more enjoyment from their sexuality after menopause, and figure out why their mojo has increased. This study suggests that looking at women’s relationships with their partners would be the obvious place to start.
Similarly, anyone with an imagination bigger than an earthworm’s could cook up more convincing interpretations of the Buss Easton et al. data. (Again, we’re overlooking that little Craigslist issue.) Past their mid-twenties, most women are more likely to be in a stable relationship than during their college years. Stable relationships lead to more opportunities for sex. We’re more likely to feel at home in our bodies. With more confidence, we find it easier to let our partners know what warms us. Not least, experience makes sex more fun, not less.
I’m not asking for rocket science. I only expect researchers to remember that we’re more than our reptile brains – and that even our reptile brains might be driven by more than just the drive to reproduce. Like the drive to feel pleasure. Or the desire for intimacy.
In other words, I’m looking for plain old science. The Buss Easton et al. study is LOLscience. Too bad I’ve stopped laughing. (Except for the Craigslist brainfart – that still tickles me.)
Note: I haven’t taken the time to read the original journal article by Buss et al, as its problems are on such a macro level that a closer look doesn’t seem necessary. I did look at the Hinchliff piece, whose major limitation is its small size (twelve in-depth interviews). Still, it suggests interesting avenues for future research.
Update, 7/21/2010: Upon being challenged by a commenter, I did go dig up the original journal article by Easton et al. (This commenter also pointed out – correctly – that Easton is listed as lead author, though it’s clear that Buss – as the only investigator with a Ph.D. – bears ultimate responsibility for overseeing the three graduate students on the project.) Here’s how I revised my assessment.
I read the original journal article closely and carefully. And I don’t think Time was unfair to this study at all.
In their original article, the authors never explain or defend their use of Craigslist to recruit study participants. That’s a massive omission. It boggles.
The full-length article raises other methodological issues, too. For instance, menopausal women made up only 6.2% of study participants (51 out of 827). This calls into question the robustness of any statistical conclusions drawn about the menopausal group – and this is a quantiative study, so sample size does matter.
Perhaps more damningly, the pool of respondents in the 27 to 45 group skewed very heavily toward the younger end of that range. Average age within that group was just 32.86. In other words, women over 35, whose fertility was beginning to decline more steeply, are not underrepresented within that group.
With respect to the researchers’ interpretation, Easton et al. do admit that sexual experience could play a role in women wanting more sex, but they immediately discount it because desire typically drops after menopause, when women have even more experience. Yet they don’t consider obvious confounders: the hormonal and social changes that accompany menopause. That makes their dismissal of experience awfully unconvincing.
Also, nowhere do they acknowledge that women’s material lives (children, relationships, homes, jobs) and psychological outlooks often change quite drastically between 27 and 45. This age group is drawn entirely from their hypothesis that declining fertility is the driver in making women more horny. It does not allow for any other distinctions to be made. (For instance, in the real world, I’ve known very few women in their late twenties who were worried about their fertility, while I’ve known quite a number of them in their late thirties. This matters crucially – unless we’re prepared to believe we’re merely automatons responding to the evolutionary pressures that existed many millennia ago.)
Finally, in actually reading through the study, I am dumbfounded by how teleologically the researchers proceeded. The women in the 27-45 bracket (those Time so cutely branded “cougars”) appear in the study as “reproduction expediting” women. In other words, something that the study ought to be testing for (are these women really seeking to become mothers?) is completely short-circuited and posited as fact by labeling these women as seeking to reproduce as fast and as often as possible. Once it’s assumed that sexual activity is identical with trying to maximize fertility, you no longer have to prove it. It becomes a background assumption. And yet, this is a massive logical leap.
Now, you might argue that women today are still just following the same program their foremothers did, back in the hunter-gatherer age – the so-called environment of evolutionary adaptedness (EEA) – and that even when we think we don’t want a baby, we actually do, because our evolved hard-wiring says so. Fine. But women today overwhelmingly break the link between sex and reproduction. Most of us quite consciously pursue sex lives that will allow us pleasure – to the point that many women (and men!) find it odd when they actually, intentionally try to conceive. The authors completely ignore the convulsive changes that effective birth control has wrought in women’s desires and their willingness/ability to pursue them.
Humans continue to adapt. We didn’t stop adapting in the EEA. Birth control is a monumental adaptation. Easton et al. would be far more convincing it they took it into account. Same goes for other social factors, such as slut shaming, which affects young women most acutely, and would tend to inhibit sexual behaviors. I’m not arguing that we’re blank slates. We have some biological hard-wiring (but with tremendous variation – not all women want children!). I’m even willing to say that some of that hard-wiring is a result of the EEA. However, when science dabbles in teleological thinking and unsupported assumptions and assertions, we might just as well discuss theology instead.
Mixed flowers in Berlin’s Rose Garden. I took the picture but can’t speak to their evolved psychology. The blossoms on the right appear to be hardy geraniums. The lavender flowers are not actually lavender, as far as I could tell. The dried foliage on the left may be post-menopausal?


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OMFG.
Thanks for the awesome takedown.
Thanks, Melissa! But I have to say, it was a little like taking the last swing at a pinata that was already on the verge of bursting.
Thanks for your insights. A really nice blend of so called scientific ‘research’ and common sense.
I like your way of calling poppycock what it is.
Seems to me the questioning the female libido in such grand trends is a bit like following a leaf in a river to find out why leaves fall. I agree that reducing human beings to reptilian brains versus (?), is entirely odd, and that including the nebulous factors of intimacy and relationships play at least as crucial a role as hormones. What we forget, is that our entire life style either stimulates the production of hormones or hinders them. No matter what the reasons, if a woman loses interest in sex she has less, and if she has less then she is usually less interested. But we treat this like some kind of syndrome and then women feel bad about it.
Certainly age plays a part in hormone production, but there’s also much we can do with our minds to stimulate our hormones.
Personally, while I admire what it must take to do such studies, I am much more interested in inspiring women to become sexually fulfilled- not because they SHOULD (according to someone else’s ideas) but because intimacy and sex are such a marvelous part of life. We know there’s something we miss when we just shut down and forget the joys of physical sex.
I love what you site about many women having a strong resurgence of sex after menopause. We should be asking why in better ways. While I love all the reasons you stated, for me I now have sex because I feel deep pleasure and I value so much the way I feel more relaxed and whole after sex. When I was younger a lot of my energy went to: ‘now that I’ve had sex, what’s next? Do I like this person, how long will we be together, should we have/avoid having etc.
children, etc. Now I have sex because I want to be held and loved and because I want to give pleasure.
Oh, I hit send before I was done. anyway, I am Amara and I;d like to stay in touch.
Hi Amara! Thanks for your lyrical comment. You make a *very* important point that our hormones don’t exist in isolation. Social interactions also stimulate them. For instance, testosterone rises in men as a *response* to aggression, not as a precursor to it.
You also point to a vicious circle that can develop. This can also occur just on the level of tissue elasticity. When I took Intro to Human Sexuality in college, our instructor told us that the key to remaining sexually active in midlife and beyond was simple: use it or lose it! Now, I think it’s more complex than that, but there’s also plenty of evidence that says women who remain sexually active are less apt to suffer from severe vaginal atrophy, which leads to problems outside the sexual realm too (specifically, problems with the urinary tract, urgency, etc.).
It’s still apparently a minority of women who see their mojo rise after menopause, but I agree that we could learn so much by asking why do some women experience this while others see their libido dry up and blow away. I agree completely, too, that women shouldn’t have sex out of duty (and I think that plenty of women do this already prior to menopause – especially once they become mothers) … and that there are so many reasons that it can enhance our own lives and our relationships.
I checked out your blog. Keep building it; I’m interested to see how it grows.
“otherwise, testosterone would offer an easy fix to women troubled by low desire”
It would be, but there would be costs: Testosteron would make the women more masculin: more facial hair, smaller Breasts etc
Definitely – and most women aren’t willing to make those tradeoffs. Some women have found low-dose T helpful with libido, and tolerated the side effects. But the thing is, T doesn’t even help everyone! Some women can take it and … nada. Maybe they’d need a higher dose, but then those side effects are a virtual certainty.
If the Problem is indeed low Testosteron (and not Psychology):
Androgen needs a receptor. Maybe they are missing them or have too few.
Thanks Sungold,
I like your blog a lot! I am just getting started in this amazing realm & have lots to learn. Thought I’d begin by having conversations in blogs I like. So thanks for your reply, and forgive me if I go on a bit….
This is an interesting thing you say, which seems pretty well known: “testosterone rises in men as a *response* to aggression, not as a precursor to it.”
Well if that’s true, then what does estrogen rise in response to? Kindness? Love? Compassion? Why is this so seldom spoken of?
Now here’s the thing. Testosterone not only rises in response to aggression, it also rises in response to sweet and alluring feminine energy. Likewise, estrogen rises in response to strong, benevolent masculine energy.
Back to the birds and the bees I say, cuz I believe the real secret to enduring sex and intimacy is so simple it gets forgotten. Both men and women have a natural abundance of sexual energy. The trick is to sweep away the clutter and mess that buries it away and locks it inside.
Amara
I never would have guessed that you “haven’t taken the time to read the original journal article by Buss et al” (should be Easton et al.). I’d address some of your more straw-like criticisms but…I don’t have to. Because the authors already have, in the paper that you didn’t bother to read. At a whopping five pages it would have kept you up all night.
If you’ll take time to skim it, the authors address almost all of your criticisms, some of which are based on paraphrasing failures by Time. As an academic, I’d think you’d know better than to take press summaries of research on faith.
Please understand that most bloggers don’t ever go back to read the original articles; they don’t have access. I’m traveling and have somewhat spotty access. I almost always do look up the original study, assuming I can get access to it. (Sometimes my library doesn’t have access; sometimes articles are embargoed for 6 to 12 months.)
To respond to your criticism, I did look up the Easton et. at article (point taken that she was listed as first author, though Buss is clearly the senior scholar on the project). I read it closely and carefully. And I don’t think Time was unfair to this study at all. By now, I also have a pretty reliable sniffer about where the popular press tends to err in science reporting; that sixth sense indicated that Time’s report was actually quite flattering, apart from pouncing on the Craigslist issue.
In their original article, the authors never explain or defend their use of Craigslist to recruit study participants. That’s a massive omission. It boggles.
They do admit that sexual experience *could* play a role in women wanting more sex, but they immediately discount it because desire dropped after menopause. Yet they don’t consider obvious confounders: the hormonal and social changes that accompany menopause. That makes their dismissal of experience awfully unconvincing.
Also, nowhere do they acknowledge that women’s material lives (children, relationships, homes, jobs) and psychological outlooks can change quite drastically between 27 and 45. This age group is drawn entirely from their hypothesis that declining fertility is *the* driver in making women more horny.
Finally, in actually reading through the study, I am dumbfounded by how teleologically the researchers proceeded. The women in the 27-45 bracket (those Time so cutely branded “cougars”) appear in the study as “reproduction expediting” women. In other words, something that the study ought to be testing for (are these women really seeking to become mothers?) is completely short-circuited and posited as fact by labeling these women as seeking to reproduce as fast and as often as possible. Once it’s assumed that sexual activity is identical with trying to maximize fertility, you no longer have to prove it. It becomes a background assumption. And yet, this is a massive logical leap.
Now, you might argue that women today are still just following the same program their foremothers did, back in the hunter-gatherer age – the so-called environment of evolutionary adaptedness (EEA) – and that even when we think we don’t want a baby, we actually do, because our evolved hard-wiring says so. Fine. But women today overwhelmingly break the link between sex and reproduction. Most of us quite consciously pursue sex lives that will allow us pleasure – to the point that many women (and men!) find it odd when they actually, intentionally try to conceive. The authors completely ignore the convulsive changes that effective birth control has wrought in women’s desires and their willingness/ability to pursue them.
Humans continue to adapt. We didn’t stop adapting in the EEA. Birth control is a monumental adaptation. Easton et al. would be far more convincing it they took it into account.