The “boy crisis” has made the news, yet again, though it’s unclear whether much is new or different about it. This time, it’s Hanna Rosin in New York Magazine, asking where “the boy genius” has gone. (For an earlier iteration of the “boy crisis” meme, see Ann Hulbert’s smart takedown of it in Slate a few years back.)
I’m not entirely unsympathetic to worries about how boys may be shortchanged by our educational system. I am, however, reluctant to view it in oversimplified terms.
First, the two-ton elephant in the room – which Rosin doesn’t even mention – is the confluence of gender with race and socioeconomic class. Rosin mentions that boys are less likely than girls to earn a high school or college diploma. But she completely glosses over the fact that by far the most troubling disparity is between African-American boys and girls. (I’ve written before about the racial crisis in education, along with the real problems that emerge if college and learning become “girly” objectives.) All in all, white boys are doing pretty well.
My other objection is that Rosin, like so many other commentators, frames boys’ educational attainment as part of a zero-sum game. Remember those classroom games that pitted the boys against the girls? In the 1970s, my teachers often had the girls and boys vie to be the better team at spelling or math. Teachers may downplay gender-based competition these days (or maybe not!), but the media still can’t drop the idea of a “war against boys,” as Christina Hoff Sommers termed it a decade ago.
The zero-sum frame relies on a boys are from Mars, girls are from Venus view of gender. Yet most interventions to improve boys’ learning will help girls, too! Take the much-lamented death of recess. Sure, the antsiest boys will benefit most from restoring recess. So will the antsiest girls! At least in the lower grades, I still see more boys than girls who are high-energy, but boys don’t monopolize that market. (We can leave aside the nature/nurture question here; anyone who’s spent much time volunteering in a first-grade classroom has seen girls as well as boys who have trouble sitting still.) Fresh air, movement, a break in routine – these are benefits that accrue to all kids, not just boys.
And by the way, the villain who killed recess isn’t, say, Mary Pipher (who wrote Reviving Ophelia) or the AAUW. The culprit is NCLB and every other testing mandate that pressures teachers to maximize the time spent teaching to the test.
Or take the main example Rosin pillories: early testing for gifted programs. I’m sorry, but age four is just too young for sorting kids into ability levels! Parents whose kids are exceptional may gain useful information from early individual testing, especially if they have a bright child who’s seriously frustrated and bored. Otherwise, I don’t see much utility in testing before late gradeschool, and I do see great potential for mislabeling and pigeonholing kids of any gender. (Pigeonholing and mislabeling can be a problem at any age, but that’s such a huge issue, I’m not going to try to address it here.) More boys than girls are likely to have their talents overlooked, but again this is primarily a matter of poor educational practices, which can hurt any child.
On average, of course, girls develop faster in their language skills, especially in the early grades, as Rosin notes. She’s also right when she observes that there are problems stemming from school curricula becoming more verbal, even when it comes to learning math. But again, this is not just an issue for boys!
Here’s an example. Recently, the Bear came home with a math problem that asked which operation he’d use for finding the total amount of produce sold at a roadside stand. The answer was, obviously, addition. But then he was supposed to explain why he’s use that operation! Well, duh! I think it’s terrific that kids with less mathematical inclination are being helped to understand math through verbal routes. But for kids who are less verbal (like my Tiger), it’s neither fair nor useful to be forced to explain mathematical reasoning in words. For kids with fairly equal strengths in both math and language, it’s just annoying and alienating! And yes, my son the Bear falls into that latter category – but so did the young Sungold, and I recall being a girl at the time!
I do see one area where there’s a true zero-sum game: admission to self-enclosed gifted programs, which is what prompted Rosin’s article in the first place. I see the sort of standardized testing that the Tiger underwent this year in first grade, and it was all verbally based – including the math – because the instructions were delivered through headphones. For a kid with listening issues, this was fatal: he scored well below average on everything except a simple non-verbal IQ screening test, where he cleared the 99th percentile – a vivid illustration of how pegging all performance to verbal abilities can systematically underestimate a child.
I can imagine three solutions to this problem. The first is a no-brainer: test children for gifted programs no sooner than fourth grade. Secondly, testing needs to ensure that subtests can’t be easily distorted by weaknesses in the areas not being tested. This is not a trivial problem, but it’s one that can be addressed by clever psychologists.
And thirdly, maybe self-contained gifted programs should be a little less contained. Maybe they need to have flexible enrollment limits. Kids should be able to join in if a later assessment shows their promise. And stand-alone programs should probably be deemphasized in favor of flexible, differentiated teaching strategies that meet kids where they are. This is tougher for teachers to implement than simply putting a bunch of high-performing kids in a classroom – who are not always necessarily the ones with the greatest potential, since some extremely bright children check out due to boredom, and others may be brilliant but struggle with a learning difference. Those children, again, are more likely to be boys than girls. All of them deserve a chance to flourish.
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Interesting!
“…these are benefits that accrue to all kids, not just boys.”
I agree but equal opportunity isn’t sameness. You cede that boys and girls may be generally different. (Not everyone cedes this point; Naomi Wolf famously had a change of heart on the issue of masculinity-as-a-societal-construct only after she had children.) Why not cede that the interventions and educational approach should likewise be different? That some interventions (or, as you wisely point out, recess) are suited for boys are likewise suited for girls doesn’t nullify the value of the hypothesized affirmative action for boys.
“I can imagine three solutions to this problem.”
Allow me to suggest a fourth: eschew the “gifted” label in favor of an excellent, challenging curriculum for all. I grew up in a state which doesn’t use the “gifted” label, and my classmates and I received a quality education. So “excellent” that my school received a visit from the then Secretary of Education William Bennett. (Yes, I’m dating myself.) In any event, I just don’t see the value to the gifted label, and when I hear it, ug, it sounds so elitist. “Susie is gifted.” Gag. Sorry!
Now, if we stipulate that the “gifted” label has value (which I don’t), to your point: “The first is a no-brainer: test children for gifted programs no sooner than fourth grade.” Well, okay, I don’t have expertise in early childhood development, but aren’t you ignoring the value of education during those early years? If “gifted” programs are truly superior for those with high aptitude (however *that* is measured), then wouldn’t a delay in applying the label handicap gifted Susie? She’ll be bored! Because, you know, if she isn’t “gifted” then the school shouldn’t dedicate extra resources to keep her stimulated.
“…maybe self-contained gifted programs should be a little less contained. Maybe they need to have flexible enrollment limits. Kids should be able to join in if a later assessment shows their promise.”
Sounds like affirmative action for boys.
I wouldn’t agree that boys and girls are *fundamentally* different. On average, you see differences. However, you see lots of exceptions to the so-called rule, too, and that’s why it makes no sense to me to couch reforms like reinstatement of recess as primarily for the benefit of boys. If it helps *everyone,* then it’s politically smarter and intellectually more accurate to say so, instead of framing it as part of a zero-sum game.
Just in my own family, I have one son who’s fairly squirrelly in the classroom (but *not* more aggressive than the average girl) and one son who’s always been one of the most settled, focused kids in his class. You see differences despite pretty similar parenting with both kids, because they do come with innate tendencies, and birth order matters some, too. But neither one fits all of the boy stereotypes.
As for the “gifted” label – I’m not sure it has less value than other educational labels. It is often imprecise, in that very smart kids can have a bad day testing (or just not have good test-taking skills, or whatever) and their abilities may be overlooked. Kids can be misidentified and misunderstood if they are extremely smart and just check out – my husband became a high-school drop out in large part due to this problem. (He eventually got his Ph.D., but after doing everything the hard way!)
I’m not sure that self-contained programs and “enrichment” are the right approach. I’m firmly convinced, though, that an “excellent” education will offer differentiated curriculum and an appropriate *challenge* to those kids who will thrive on it. I don’t really care about what we call “kids with exceptional cognitive abilities,” and I recognize that “gifted” pushes a lot of people’s buttons, as it does yours. I do know what it’s like to grow up in an impoverished school system. I had to wait until I was in eleventh grade to have a capable writing teacher. (That’s when my family moved from North Dakota to California.) I wasn’t ever seriously challenged until college.
As for your last point? Sure, more boys than girls are likely to benefit from flexibility in labeling/identifying kids. But again, this is not exclusive. I can think of a child in one of my kids’ classes who’s very bright but often lost in thought, and who will score higher on standardized tests with maturity. Guess what? She’s a girl!
Trust me, I get it. Generalizations are of limited use and can breed prejudice. If you only knew me by standardized tests, you’d think I was a dude.
And in many respects, framing this issue as a gender issue (which you didn’t) is counterproductive in two respects. One, it becomes tied up in gender politics, and the baggage of gender politics, and therefore many will reject the underlying tenets merely because of the way Christina Hoff-Sommers originally framed the issue. Two, it’s not really a gender issue in my opinion. It’s an issue of neurological difference that disproportionately (but not exclusively) affects boys. We’re not just talking about gifted. We’re talking 2e. Twice exceptional, aren’t we? Well maybe Rosin isn’t and maybe you aren’t, but I am.
Thus, we’re missing a word, as in the way we’re framing the debate is lacking from the perspective of language. The word we should be using is neurodiversity, not gender equality. Educational institutions need to value and nourish the minds of those who have an uneven learning profile, regardless of gender. Anyway, my 2 cents.
In part, I’m talking about 2e, too. Not that all boys are 2e, and in fact there are lots of girls in that category, too. But yes, I think we’re in strong agreement that cookie-cutter categorization of kids misses a lot of their individual strengths and needs.
I really like your framing of the issue as one of valuing “neurodiversity.” Perhaps we can start to broaden it beyond the autism community (though that might also risk diluting autism advocacy). At any rate, there are lots of kids with uneven strengths and ways of learning, and serving them well requires both flexibility on the part of teachers and administrators, and enough resources that a school can offer more than just a cookie-cutter curriculum.
Are y’all formally in the school system these days, with preschool, etc.? Neither of my boys went to preschool (for lack of a program in our local school) but we’ve been lucky to have had good teachers who care about each kids’ strengths and needs. The Tiger will start 2nd grade in the fall; so far, so good.
That’s great! And encouraging. I assume Bear never needed an aid. At 4.5, I don’t know whether Brad will need one when he enters kindie.
Now, Bradley is in preschool through the special education program of our public school. It’s an integrated program, meaning 50% of his peers at school are “typical.” It’s fine, but we’re leaning towards a private school solution eventually. Now, when the rubber hits the road, who knows, because theory and practice are totally different and teachers make all the difference. So who knows.
We don’t have a private school available locally, so that simplified our decision-making. But you’re right that teachers make all the difference.
No, the Tiger never needed an aide. His language is still a little quirky but he’s highly social and talkative – nowhere close to qualifying for special services. He *did* need some extra attention from the teachers to stay on task, especially this past winter. Oddly something fell into place after he broke his arm, and once he got his cast off, he was able to focus better.
It sounds like Bradley is in a good program for now, which is maybe all we can ever expect (whether our kids are “typically developing” or not). I’ll continue to hope that he keeps doing well!