I had the following phone conversation with my dad this afternoon:
Dad: I meant to call you last night.
Me: Oh, that’s all right, today is my birthday.
Dad: Oh, what day is it?
Me: The 29th.
Dad: And when did you say your birthday is?
Me: Today.
Dad: And what’s the date today?
Me: The 29th.
It was one of those conversations where you have to laugh about it later with siblings, because otherwise you might have to cry.
I have to admit, though, that even I didn’t remember it was my birthday until nearly noon. Such is the course of my days lately.
But then I got a really awesome present, although it wasn’t technically a present at all. Lately I’ve dreaded spending time in my office because it’s so cold – often in the low 60s, and I am a tender creature. A colleague told me that there are space heaters available for our offices, and she gave me one. I plugged it in, cranked it up to high, closed my office door, and just basked in it.
Later, my older son’s soccer team played their first game, and all of a sudden these fourth-graders are playing real soccer! With clever passing, good position play, and generally amazing teamwork! I said it was the most fun I’ve had watching soccer since Germany nearly made the finals of the 2006 World Cup – and I meant it.
Now my work is done and the champagne is cold. That is all I have to say, until I’m one day older again.
Patron cat of Kittywampus (1985-2001)
I guess your dad and your day show the impossibility of unalloyed joy and unalloyed sadness – it all goes on at once. If we’re not destroyed by the impossibility of one, or born down by the inevitability of the other, I guess we’ll be OK.
Thanks for this, and I hope your office stays as warm as the Champagne was cold.
A very happy birthday to you.
Happy birthday Sungold! I am so glad you had a nice day that ended with Champagne.
Reg, that’s exactly right. Sometimes one predominates to the point where the other seems impossible, but over time there’s some balance.
Chally and Sugarmag – thanks so much! I got to watch Desperate Housewives along with the bubbly, so it was a little window of pure self-indulgence.
Happy birthday!
Thanks, MomTFH! It’s not officially over until we get enough of a breather in the soccer schedule to go out for Chinese food, later this week.
Happy Birthday!
Happy Birthday, Sungold, and many happy returns!
Thanks, Daisy and Mark! We finally got out for Chinese food last night, so I guess that officially ended the festivities.